May 11, 2013

Outdoor Knitting, in Three Takes


Door County, Wisconsin, August 1984. My Mom and her best friend, Donna, share another afternoon knitting.  Meškė is sitting with Mom again.

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Door County, Wisconsin, August 1984. Oh, you say Mom's not knitting? She's reading the new issue of Vogue Knitting.

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Door County, Wisconsin, August 1984. Donna brought her gold, vinyl knitting bag.

Related by Marriage: Birthday Week


Near Lake Geneva, Wisconsin, Spring 1957. Mr. Irene's Mom celebrates a birthday this week.

"Everybody does karaoke."

By now, most people have seen this adorable segment, but I'm posting it here because it makes me smile every time I see it. Mr. Irene and I caught the clip when it aired originally on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno.

Be sure to watch it to the end; my favorite part starts at 3:23

The Verona Morning Star


My favorite high-school teacher also taught English. We students thought this teacher was cool because she was only eight years older than we were. She was fresh out of college. She was stylish: her clothes were a bit hippie Bohemian, and she styled her hair in a long shag. The teacher spoke to us as if we were adults, and she often peppered her vocabulary with words we hadn't hear before. She moderated the "Creative Writing Club," which I joined, and she took a group to hear Germaine Greer speak at the local community college. (What I remember most about Greer's lecture was how Greer flirtatiously played with her long, silk scarf throughout the talk).
 
During my sophomore year, the teacher assigned Romeo and Juliet. To test our understanding of the play, she assigned an unusual homework project. We were directed to create a newspaper that knit the themes of the play and showed our grasp of its historical setting.
 
We received the assignment on a Friday, and it was due the following Monday. When I returned home from school, I headed that afternoon to my Best Friend's house. My Best Friend was artistic, and I hoped she'd have some materials with which I could craft the piece. We found some large sheets of newspaper stock in her supplies. My Best Friend and I went out to her backyard, where we burned the edges of the paper to make it appear aged. From there, I spent the weekend writing up stories about Renaissance Verona on my Parents' Royal Typewriter. I drew advertisements, maps, and a comic strip. 
 
The assignment was the most memorable one I completed. What I learned from this teacher—and from my other, favorite teachers—was that good teachers don't teach you material; they teach you to think differently and apply what you've learned critically.
 
 
Suburban Chicago, October 12, 1973. A piece of twine originally held the two pages of my newspaper together.
 
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Page 2 featured a column by Margarita's Mouth, "Verona's Galloping Gossip."

"In 70 hours, 70 years of communism in the Soviet Union was undone."

A CIA officer reflects on the Lithuanian revolution.

May 10, 2013

Redbud Time


University of Wisconsin—Madison, May 2007. The Redbuds are in bloom on campus as the spring semester ends. Last year—during our crazy-warm spring—the trees bloomed at the end of March.

A Day Trip to the Beach


Coney Island Beach, New York, May 1952. My Parents' friends join them for a day at Coney Island.

Relax with your dog.


Kaunas, Lithuania about 1934 or 1935. This is Suzanne—the wife of my Dad's older cousin, Henry—shortly after the birth of her daughter, Kaunas Nina.

Thanks to Suzanne's Granddaughter—my Kaunas Cousin—for making this photo available to us.

It's the last day of school.

Exam season is here again.


Door County, Wisconsin, November 1984. When I returned from Venice, I no longer worried about exams, but I spent the next year organizing my research—recorded on 3 by 5-inch note cards. Many nostalgic items (besides the ashtray and cigarettes) appear in this photo: a bottle of "Liquid Paper," an airmail envelope, the inkwell for my Parker fountain pen, a copy of Essential Italian Grammar, a Latin dictionary, and the corduroy pencil case I bought in Venice.

Out of Time

How historical figures would have looked today.

Elizabeth I looks like Tilda Swinton.

May 9, 2013

Mates, in Three Takes


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Verona, Wisconsin, May 2013. "While we have no scientific proof to back the assertion, we are fairly convinced that the Goldfinches mate for life."

I take safety precautions.


Lake Nipissing, Ontario, Canada, 1965. My Toronto Cousin and I are not in the boat yet, but I am prepared for the trip.

Related by Marriage: Draft Horse

Commenter edutcher thought one of the horses in this post looked like a draft horse.
 
Here's a pair of draft horses:


Near Goodman, Wisconsin, about 1938. Mr. Irene's Mom (center) works at Cousin O's farm.

Hobbies

Mom, Dad, and I enjoyed hobbies. I've knitted since I was seven years old. When I was in college and graduate school, I petit-pointed for a time. Dad, of course, worked on his photography. When he was in Door County, he sometimes carved wood. Mom always knitted, but she also crocheted, sewed, and quilted. She gave up the latter two crafts because they were not "portable."

Mom also painted watercolors, although she stopped a few years after I was born. She painted the most during the summers of 1957 and 1959, when the family vacationed at Parry Sound.

Here is one of the watercolors she produced in 1959:


The image was in our dining room for a while, and later, it moved to the Door County cottage. It's now back in my happy hands.

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Near Parry Sound, Ontario, Canada, July 1959. Here's Mom and Dad at the picnic table Mom used for her crafts that summer. The plaid bag on the left holds her knitting, the little suitcase houses her watercolor supplies, and Mom holds a circular knitting needle in her hand. It looks like she's working on a doily because there's a spool of crochet cotton on the table.

Hey! That was the summer Mom and Dad went on vacation and left me back in Suburban Chicago—with a babysitter. That's probably why they look so lustrous here: relaxed!

May 8, 2013

Side Street


Levadia, Greece, April 15, 1976. We're in Levadia to visit the Oracle of Delphi, but I am intrigued by the town's foot traffic.

Side Saddle


Near Vilnius, Lithuania, about 1914. Members of Suzanne's family take a fashionable ride.

Thanks to Suzanne's Granddaughter—my Kaunas Cousin—for making this photo available to us.

Related by Marriage: Happy Birthday, Grandpa Stanley


Suburban Chicago, 1962. Mr. Irene's maternal Grandfather, Stanley, would have been 121 years old today. Mr. Irene was Stanley's only Grandchild. The two loved each other dearly.

Teacher Appreciation

I had a "favorite" teacher at every level of my education. Helen was my favorite grade-school teacher: she oversaw my seventh-grade homeroom, and she taught English. Helen took a shine to me early in the school year because she previously had had one of my relatives in her class. I also took to Helen quickly. I liked her so much that I started arriving at school early. Dad dropped me off at 7:30 each morning on his way to work. I then spent the next hour or so with Helen as she readied for the school day. 

I treasured those mornings with Helen. She shared simple life lessons with me. She introduced me to "Sen-Sen" breath mints (I used them through the college years), and she told me that after I washed my face, I should rinse with cold water to close the pores (when I've gotten facials, the aesthetician goes over my skin with a wand of dry ice). Helen became angry with me only once. She had stepped away from her desk to rouge up her cheeks. During that interval, I fooled around with her schoolmarmish desk bell. I broke the bell, and I didn't tell Helen. Helen confronted me the next morning about the damage. She admonished me, noting that failure to fess up to the break signaled a flaw in my character. After sputtering for a few seconds, Helen noticed a new item on her desk: an antique bell that I had brought from home and placed on her desk in the precise spot where that stainless-steel, desk bell had rested. Helen said nothing, but she used my bell for the remainder of the school year.

Classmates remember Helen for another story. In the middle of the year, Helen decided she would teach her twelve-year-old charges about literature appreciation. Helen proposed assigning The Catcher in the Rye, but some parents objected to the choice. Helen obediently withdrew that book from consideration. She instead assigned two novels. The first was Erich Segal's 1970 bestseller, Love Story. Our English curriculum for several weeks consisted of Helen's reading of the book—she omitted no narrative, and she articulated every curse word. After she finished Love Story, Helen turned to the "compare and contrast" novel: To Kill a Mockingbird.

Every student understood the lesson. But it didn't keep me from begging my Dad to take me and my friend, Cindy, to see Love Story in the theater. 

Now when I think about Helen's English class, I wonder whether she decided to read the novels because they made for easy lesson plans. I loved her nonetheless, and she lives in my quartet of the most appreciated teachers.


Melrose Park, Illinois, February 1971. I took this photo of Helen when she attended the confirmation of a close, grade-school friend.

May 7, 2013

Bullish

 
Knossos, Crete, April 20, 1976. Some things in the museum are familiar.

Glasses


Suburban Chicago, Autumn 1963. Dad's enjoying a smoke after work, but I don't mind.

We always serve soft-boiled eggs in egg cups.


Kaunas, Lithuania, 1936. My Dad's older cousin, Henry, shows his daughter, Kaunas Nina, the proper way to eat an egg.

Thanks to Kaunas Nina's daughter—my Kaunas Cousin—for making this photo available to us.

Related by Marriage: After the Ceremony


Los Angeles, California, October 1952. Mr. Irene's paternal Uncle, Ignas, is delighted with his bride, Ellie.

May 6, 2013

Blackbird Reunion


Verona, Wisconsin, April 2013. The return of the blackbirds is a sign that spring nears.

A Son and His Mother


Suburban Chicago, December 1962. My Dad sits in the living room with his Mom, Tatjana.

Melancholy


Door County, Wisconsin, January 1978. Many things in this photo make me feel nostalgic.

Wall Calendar


Kaunas, Lithuania, about 1938. This is my Dad's older cousin, Henry. I wonder if this photo was taken at his workplace.

Thanks to Henry's Granddaughter—my Kaunas Cousin—for making this photo available to us.

May 4, 2013

Last year, Venice; this year, Bologna.

Tornado strikes Emilia-Romagna.

Ready for the Tour


visited Wisconsin last spring. That was that crazy-warm spring, when the lilacs bloomed in mid-April.

High-School Anniversary


Kaunas, Lithuanian Soviet Socialist Republic, 1961. My Mom's high school, celebrates its fortieth anniversary.

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Kaunas, Lithuanian Soviet Socialist Republic, 1961. The Sisters of St. Casimir established the high school, but there are no sisters in sight at this gathering.

Street-Clothes Pose


Kaunas, Lithuanian Soviet Socialist Republic, September 9, 1973. Here's Dora with her second husband. Dora sent several images from this photo shoot, but I thought this one was quirky because of the clothes the couple chose to wear.

A Great Uncle


Kaunas, Lithuania, about 1926. This photo arrived in the "new batch" of images my Kaunas Cousin sent. We initially couldn't identify this man. The image, however, was grouped with members of my side of the family, and in collaboration with our Toronto Cousin, we determined that this is Kazimieras—an older brother of my paternal Grandfather, Vytautas. That makes him my Great Uncle. He resembles other men in the family, and like them, he grayed prematurely.
 
Kazimieras was the father of my Dad's older cousins, Henry and Vytas. That also makes him the Great-Grandfather of my Kaunas Cousin. So yes, my Kaunas Cousin really is a niece to me and my Toronto Cousin. But we like to keep things simple.

Thanks to my Kaunas Cousin for making this photo available to us.

May 3, 2013

Outdoor Dining


Near Vilnius, Lithuania, August 2011. The Canadian tour group arrives for dinner. This is the type of tiled roof Mom has in mind when she thinks of old-style architecture.

Thanks to my Toronto Cousin for making this photo available to us.

Dad's Favorite Subject

My Dad like to process his own photographs. He also enjoyed zooming in on a subject once he'd printed the original photo. When I saw this photo of Mom, I recalled that I'd seen a similar one earlier in a photo album:


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Suburban Chicago, Summer 1960. Today, it's a jiffy to crop and zoom a photo. Fifty years ago, the tasks required patience and a steady hand.

Related by Marriage: Put down that highball and get into the picture.


Marquette Park, Chicago, Illinois, 1960. Mr. Irene's maternal Aunt, Martha, is on the left.

Spring Fashions

 
Erlangen, Germany, Spring 1946. My Mom—on the right—and some of her medical-school classmates visit the park.

By the time TIME catches onto a fad, it's already a cliché.

Yarnbombing.

May 2, 2013

Watch your back.


Delphi Archaeological Museum, Delphi, Greece, April 16, 1976. This snapshot shows part of the East Frieze of the Siphnian Treasury. The frieze illustrates the Trojan War. Here's the entire piece.

Party Pooped


Suburban Chicago, April 1960. The children sit in the dining room to celebrate a birthday. I perch in my high chair. The boy is my friend Ron. Here's another snapshot from the same party.

You don't have to know who the people are to appreciate a photo of them.


Kaunas, Lithuania, about 1926. I believe these are relatives of Suzanne, the wife of my Dad's older cousin, Henry.

Thanks to my Kaunas Cousin for making this photo available to us.

Trusted


Kaunas, Lithuanian Soviet Socialist Republic, August 2, 1960. My Mom's maternal Aunt, Dora (center), stands with two more of her tenants in the garden of Mom's childhood home.

May 1, 2013

Canine Resilience

Consider the workday of a Moscow subway dog.

Duck-Pond Reunion


Suburban Chicago, May 1961. We're back at the Amling's duck pond. Did I remember to bring the Wonder Bread?

They "made it."


Suburban Chicago, August 1958. This is how my childhood home looked around the time I was born. My Parents bought the house when they learned they were expecting me. The little girl standing at the front-door steps is my Toronto Cousin.

Related by Marriage: Workday


Camp Irwin, Barstow, California, July 1951. Mr. Irene's Dad pauses from his work as a tank instructor to pose for a snapshot.

Looking ahead to summer.


Near Parry Sound, Ontario, Canada, August 1959. Mom and Dad chat with the friend who owned the Weimaraner.

Deanna Durbin has died.

Durbin was my Mom's second favorite* movie star. Mom saw subtitled Durbin movies in Lithuania. Many thought the popularity of the jazzier Judy Garland diminished Durbin's appeal.

*The favorite? Jeanette McDonald. Mom's favorite movie is Maytime.